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Showing posts with label LIFESTYLE. Show all posts

Thursday, February 28, 2013

Abena Afreeka: Philadelphia Therapist Announces ‘N*gga Recovery Program’

Abena AfreekaIf you’re someone who feels that “nigga” is a term of endearment that empowers Black people by removing the sting of racism from the word, or if you’re a rapper who loves your “niggas” like you all escaped from Candieland plantation together and call each other “my nigga” to remember where you came from, then Abena Afreeka‘s “Nigga Recovery Program” just might be for you.

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Though the program has been in the conceptual stages for close to a decade, the Philadelphia therapist was motivated to kick it into overdrive after seeing the accolades heaped onto the shoulders of Hip-Hop heavyweights, Jay-Z and Kanye West, for their club smash, “Niggas In Paris.”

Because people of African descent have never engaged in the process of healing for experiences and effects of those experiences that came out of that term, continued use of the term without attending to deep emotional wounds is irresponsible on the part of all parties involved,” said Afreeka to The Philly Post. So I’ve developed this program, and am asking other folks of African descent, and Jay and Kanye, asking them and inviting them to engage in the process of recovery.

Afreeka goes on to explain the logistics of the therapy group and what participants can expect:

They will meet with me in a group. It’s a group intervention. There would also be some individual work. They would complete a cultural genogram, they would learn to understand their relationships, their history, they would work to learn and understand self. This is substance abuse, the substance being using the N-word. And many of them are benefiting from using that substance.

The use of the word has been in the news once again recently due to self-proclaimed comedian, Lisa Lampanelli, calling Lena Dunham, the creator of HBO’S hit series, Girls, “my nigga” on Twitter. Both women are White.

Me with my nigga @LenaDunham of @HBOGirls – I love this beyotch!! say.ly/oKP5chO
Lisa Lampanelli (@LisaLampanelli) February 18, 2013

In a strategic interview conducted by actress Pia  Glenn for XOJane.com, a defensive Lampanelli felt compelled to explain to a Black interviewer why Black people shouldn’t be offended by White people using the word:

“The N-word ending in ‘er’ is far different context from the word ending in ‘a.’ Ask any person who knows the urban dictionary, it means ‘friend,’” she said. “And by the way, if I had put the word ending in ‘er,’ that would have been a very derogatory thing about Lena meaning she is less than me, and I view her as very above me. ‘A’ on the end means ‘my friend.’”

“I’ve played every comedy club and every theatre across the country for the last 25 years and seen a lot of audience members from different ethnic persuasions,” she continued. “I have been using these words since I started in comedy and guess what, people? I won’t stop anytime soon, just because your ass is up on Twitter. I have always used in my act every racial slur there is for Asians, blacks, gays, and Hispanics. To me, it’s acceptable if the joke is funny and if it is said in a context of no hate. It’s about taking the hate out of the word.”

*Crickets*

According to Afreeka, we live in a world of “White lunacy” where the use of the word “nigga” has become commonplace and the illness — brought about by historical trauma — must be treated like any other addiction, scientifically and systemically.

So how long will this treatment take?

“As with most treatment for folks in mental and behavioral health, treatment time varies,” said Afreeka.  “You start with where the person is, assess and go from there. The cost is on a sliding fee scale. Rap artists like Kanye and company would be expected to give more.”

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Abena Afreeka: Philadelphia Therapist Announces ‘N*gga Recovery Program’
Kirsten West Savali
Thu, 28 Feb 2013 00:38:51 GMT

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Mary J. looks to owe lots of rent K's

Mary J. looks to owe lots of rent K's

Here’s the 411 on Mary J. Blige’s financial troubles — they’re worse than we thought. The “No More Drama” singer’s reported money problems have gotten so bad, she was slapped with a notice on the door of her tony upper West Side apartment building after it was discovered that she “had a rent-paying problem” last November.

Mary J. looks to owe lots of rent K's
Confidential
Tue, 19 Feb 2013 11:00:41 GMT

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Hushed for Android Generates Throw-Away Phone Numbers for Private Calls in Over 40 Countries

Hushed for Android Generates Throw-Away Phone Numbers for Private Calls in Over 40 Countries

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Android (4.0+): Hushed generates disposable, throw-away phone numbers that you can use for incoming and outgoing phone calls and SMS. The app is ideal for communicating with anyone you don't necessarily want to have your number, like the person you're selling old furniture to on Craigslist or a blind date you're meeting for the first time. More »

Hushed for Android Generates Throw-Away Phone Numbers for Private Calls in Over 40 Countries
Alan Henry
Thu, 24 Jan 2013 13:00:00 GMT

Monday, January 21, 2013

Historic black neighborhoods climb from recession

Historic black neighborhoods climb from recession

In Harlem, the capital of black American culture, a network of entrepreneurs is trying to help struggling businesses survive by exposing them to the savvy tactics of New York’s movers and shakers. In Cleveland’s Fairfax neighborhood, where poet Langston Hughes once lived and where a 98-year-old theater launched his plays, a bank is investing millions. [...]

Historic black neighborhoods climb from recession
The Admin
Mon, 21 Jan 2013 01:50:45 GMT

Monday, July 23, 2012

HIV increase among black gays called 'alarming'

HIV increase among black gays called 'alarming'

Nearly 6% of black gay men under 30 become newly infected with the AIDS virus each year, according to research presented at AIDS 2012.


HIV increase among black gays called 'alarming'
Mon, 23 Jul 2012 15:08:32 GMT

Sunday, July 15, 2012

'Dear White People' Tackles Identity Issues

'Dear White People' Tackles Identity Issues

(The Root) -- Justin Simien doesn't mind the possible comparisons to Spike Lee. Since the recent release of the trailer for his film Dear White People, a satire about black students' experience at PWIs (Predominantly White Institutions), many have noted the similarities between its take on race relations and Lee's own joints. (The clip already has more than 600,000 views on YouTube and has raised more than $41,400 on Indiegogo, surpassing its $25,000 fundraising goal.)

But, Simien says, the film is not just about race. "The movie to me is really about what it means to your identity when you are a thing that everyone around you has a preconception about," he explained. "And how that can really limit you, your potential, and in some ways, honestly, help you find yourself."

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Saturday, June 16, 2012

NYC Politicians Laud Obama's Decisions To Stop Deporting Young Illegal Immigrants

NYC Politicians Laud Obama's Decisions To Stop Deporting Young Illegal Immigrants

NYC Politicians Laud Obama's Decisions To Stop Deporting Young Illegal Immigrants After the Obama Administration announced that the U.S. would not deport some young illegal immigrants, New York lawmakers rushed to praise the decision. However, they hope for more: Bronx Borough President Ruben Diaz Jr. said, "While President Obama’s decision today will help towards fulfilling the promise of the American Dream, we must keep fighting for comprehensive immigration reform including the DREAM Act at a federal level and for immigrants' rights issues at a local and state level. These students deserve the chance to get a good education, and help grow our economy." [ more › ]
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NYC Politicians Laud Obama's Decisions To Stop Deporting Young Illegal Immigrants
Jen Chung
Fri, 15 Jun 2012 21:52:39 GMT

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Black Women, Stop Fighting -- and Not Just on TV

Black Women, Stop Fighting -- and Not Just on TV

Essence's Nathan Hale Williams says that he's tired of Basketball Wives-type antics and brawls on reality television -- but also in real life -- between high-powered, highly educated black women.

Now, after seeing Evelyn Lozada on Basketball Wives leap across a table to attack another women who was not threatening her, I’m done. To add insult to injury, on a recent episode she felt no remorse and acknowledged that at 36 years old (my age) she should know better, but she didn’t care. For me, the nail in the coffin was when I heard a teenage girl say, “Don’t make me go Evelyn on your [butt]!” With that statement, Ms. Lozada’s public legacy was confirmed ...

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Black Women, Stop Fighting -- and Not Just on TV
Nathan Hale Williams
Wed, 09 May 2012 05:45:27 GMT

Sunday, February 26, 2012

Is Hip-Hop to Blame for Rampant Black Consumerism?

Is Hip-Hop to Blame for Rampant Black Consumerism?

In a blog entry at Clutch magazine, Jayne Dirt checks in on blacks America's obsession with designer bags and shoes while living a single paycheck above the poverty line. She wonders how much hip-hop is to blame.

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Is Hip-Hop to Blame for Rampant Black Consumerism?
Jayne Dirt
Sun, 26 Feb 2012 05:22:42 GMT

Friday, February 3, 2012

Oh, For Real? Welfare Recipients Face Strip Club Ban

 

After voting on a ban Wednesday evening, the Republican-led House of Representatives sent a clear and bizarre message to Congress that they would stop welfare recipients from using their benefits at strip clubs, liquor stores, and casinos.

Dubbed in the press as the “strip club bill,” the legislation received a whopping 395-27 vote. Essentially, the bill would prevent welfare recipients from accessing their benefits in strip clubs, casinos, and liquor stores. The Republican-backed proposal was phrased as an attempt to cut down waste and abuse of the federal program.

However controversial, the bill’s aims are not new; House Republicans voted in similar fashion back in December during the payroll tax extension debacle. Rep. Charles Boustany (R-La.), the mastermind behind bill H.R. 3567, created the bill because he was against the “fraudulent misuse of funds.”

House Republicans are voting on the bill again as part of negotiations between the House and Senate for a yearlong payroll tax extension package and have put pressure on Democrats in Congress to accept the changes since it has passed previously. Some Democrats are going along with the bill in order to speed past other legislative roadblocks.

House Democrats, nearly defenseless, argued in a debate before the vote that the ban would effectively bar citizens from buying necessary food items from a liquor store in case of an emergency.  However, Republicans were careful to not include those stores in the ban and were declared exempt.

Honestly, one has to wonder how many welfare recipients are or have been caught at the strip club. With Americans fighting historic poverty levels, regarding unemployment and foreclosures, why are House Republicans worrying about passing bills that affect welfare recipients?

While Boustany is ironically concerned about the “fraudulent misuse of funds,” Americans must ask themselves if our elected officials are grossly misusing our funds.

Oh, For Real? Welfare Recipients Face Strip Club Ban
D.L. Chandler
Fri, 03 Feb 2012 17:04:49 GMT

Sunday, January 22, 2012

Poor N.Y. Neighborhood Feeds Region, But Has No Supermarket

Poor N.Y. Neighborhood Feeds Region, But Has No Supermarket

Hunts Point, an isolated and poor neighborhood in New York City’s borough of The Bronx, hosts the largest marketplace for fresh produce, meat, and fish in the northeastern United States. Huge trucks come and go at all hours of the day and night, carrying food to supermarket chains and the region’s finest restaurants.

RELATED: America’s Worst 9 Urban Food Deserts

But after a fire gutted the neighborhood’s only supermarket, Hunts Point’s residents — mostly Black and Latino — have no place to buy quality groceries.

The New York Daily News reports:

“Everybody in Hunts Point goes shopping there — all the seniors,” said area resident J.C. Creer, 73, a retired trucker. “They have quality food and fresh food there. We rely on that store.”

The industrial section of Hunts Point is home to a sprawling food distribution center that includes wholesale produce, fish and meat markets, but the residential section of the neighborhood is a so-called food desert, with few stores selling fresh fruit and vegetables.

Hunts Point Ave. is lined with bodegas and convenience stores, but now the nearest supermarket is located across busy Bruckner Blvd. in Longwood, at the corner of Southern Blvd. and E. 163rd St.

See NewsOne’s exclusive story on American “food deserts” here.

Read more in the New York Daily News

Poor N.Y. Neighborhood Feeds Region, But Has No Supermarket
News One
Sun, 22 Jan 2012 15:07:18 GMT

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Minority group says spectrum is a civil-rights issue

Minority group says spectrum is a civil-rights issue

The shortage of spectrum for wireless communications disproportionately affects low-income and minority Americans, according to the Minority Media and Telecom Council. The group issued a statement on Monday in honor of Martin Luther King Jr. day, noting African-Americans and Hispanic Americans are more likely than whites to rely on mobile devices as their primary connection to [...]

Minority group says spectrum is a civil-rights issue
The Admin
Wed, 18 Jan 2012 11:14:21 GMT

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Clap Back! The 15 Cities With The Worst Herpes Rates In The Country…EWWWW!!!

Clap Back! The 15 Cities With The Worst Herpes Rates In The Country…EWWWW!!!

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Wrap it up everywhere…but ESPECIALLY in these states!

The Center For Disease Control released a list of the 15 states with the most prevalent rates of herpes in the country. In the most prevalent cities, the rate can be up to 40 percent among sexually active people. Sheesh.

Clap Back! The 15 Cities With The Worst Herpes Rates In The Country…EWWWW!!!
daviddtss
Fri, 13 Jan 2012 20:44:06 GMT

Saturday, January 7, 2012

Gay Hotel Out NYC Offers Guests Communal Experience

Gay Hotel Out NYC Offers Guests Communal Experience

January 6, 2012 7:12am | By Mathew Katz, DNAinfo Reporter/Producer

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A rendering of the interior of The Out NYC. (The Out NYC)

HELL'S KITCHEN — New York's first gay hotel might be a little more adventurous than expected.

The 105-room Out NYC, set to open on March 1, is now accepting reservations — and is offering a cost-saving, hostel-style communal experience.

"Feeling social? Feeling thrifty? Starting at just $99 a night, you’ll get a spot in one of our nature-inspired, four-person Sleep Share rooms," says the hotel's website.

The hotel at 510 W. 42nd Street invites guests to experience "the pleasure of New York without the pain of high-priced lodging."

Each guest will get a single bed, a cubbyhole, a 22-inch television and privacy curtains — and roommates they've never met before.

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